The Way to Allah is the Best Way

What is happiness? Is happiness to be found in money or status or lineage? There are many answers, but let us look at the happiness of this woman:

A man had an argument with his wife and said, “I am going to make your life miserable.” The wife calmly replied, “You cannot do that.” He said, “Why not?” She said, “If happiness were to be found in money or jewelery, you could deprive me of it and take it away from me, but it is nothing over which you or any other person has any control. I find my happiness in my faith, and my faith is in my heart, and no one has any power over it except my Lord.”

This is true happiness, the happiness of faith, and no one can feel this happiness except the one whose mind, heart and soul are filled with the love of Allah. The one who truly has control over happiness is the One True God, so seek happiness from Him by worshiping and obeying Him.

The only way to find happiness is by learning the true religion with which the Messenger of Allah (Blessings and Peace be upon him) was sent. Once a person finds this way, it will not matter if he sleeps in a hut or by the side of the road, and he will be content with a piece of bread, and he will be the happiest person in the world. But whoever goes astray from His path will find that his whole life is filled with grief, his wealth is deprivation, his efforts are loss and his end will be humiliation. May Allah SWT guide us and keep us firm on His path, Ameen.

Distinction is earned by achievement

A rich man said:

I have no special feelings about being the richest man in the world. I live an ordinary life in a modest apartment with my wife. I do not drink or smoke and I do not like the billionaire lifestyle as depicted in the newspapers, with luxury yachts, mansions in country sides, noisy parities and marriages to beautiful girls, which usually end in divorce with settlements costing millions of dollars.

I like working and I am happy to work. I usually take my lunch with me to eat it in the workplace. I do  not feel happy when I think about all the millions I own. What makes me  happy is when I remember how I helped to change my hometown of  Tokyo from a humble town to a capital city that is the focal point of world attention with its modern architecture that I introduced…in brief, my happiness comes from my achievements.

How to achieve a happy life

An American psychologist said: Living a happy life is a fine art which entails ten things:

1. Do a work that you love. If you cannot do that, then find a hobby that you love and do it in your spare time and reinforce it.

2. Take care of your health for it is the spirit of happiness. This means being moderate in eating and drinking, exercising regularly and avoiding bad habits.

3. Have a goal in life, for this will give you motivation and energy.

4. Take life as it comes, and accept the bitter and the sweet.

5. Live in the present, with no regret for the past and no anxiety about tomorrow that has not come  yet.

6. Think hard about any action or decision, and do not blame anyone else for your decision or its consequences.

7. Look at those who are worse off than you.

8. Have the habit of smiling and being cheerful, and keep company with optimistic people.

9. Strive to make others happy so that you may benefit from the atmosphere of happiness.

10. Make the most of occasions of happiness and joy, and regard them as necessary to renew your own happiness.

The best things are those that are moderate

Mustafa Mahomoud said:

“I feel happy because I am an average man with an average income. My health is average, my standard of living is average and I have a little of everything, which means that I have a lot of motivation, and motivation  is life. The motivation in our hearts is the true warmth of life, the basis on which we evaluate our happiness.

I pray to Allah that He may bless the reader of these lines with an average life, and give him a little of everything…this is a good prayer, I swear by Allah the Almighty.

My mother did not know much about philosophy, but she had common sense and she understood what I am saying without having read about it. She used to call that contentment, and contenment means having enough, having a little of everything and a great deal of spiritual energy.”

“…And if you count the favour [Blessings] of Allah, you could not enumerate them…” (Quran 14:34)

The Keys to Victory

  • The key to glory: Obedience to Allah SWT and His Messenger (P.B.U.H)
  • The key to provision: Striving hard whilst praying for forgiveness and fearing Allah, the Exalted
  • The key to Paradise: Tawhid (Monotheism)
  • The key to faith: Pondering the sings and creation of Allah SWT
  • The key to righteousness: Sincerity
  • The key to a spiritual life: Studying the Quran, beseeching Allah SWT in the hours before dawn, and giving up sin
  • The key to knowledge: Asking the right questions and listening attentively
  • The key to victory: Patience
  • The key to success: Fearing Allah (piety)
  • The key to getting more: Gratitude
  • The key to longing for the Hereafter: Disinterest in worldly gains
  • The key to a response: Du’a (supplication)

Take care of today only

A happy person once said:

“The beautiful day is the day on which we have control of our affairs and our affairs do not control us. It is the day on which we control our desires and we are not controlled by them like slaves.

Some of these days I can remember and will never forget.

Every day on which I managed to save myself from the vicious circle of worrying about what I can and cannot do is a wonderful day.

How wonderful is the day on which I was hesitating whether to do a deed for which people would praise me or a deed for which no one would praise me, and no one would know about it, so I forsook the praise of people and was content  to do an action which I will remember for as long as I live, but which no one will hear about.

How wonderful is the day on which I felt that my pockets were filling with money but my conscience was devoid of dignity, so I decided that I would rather be penniless and have a clear conscience.

These days are wonderful, and the most wonderful thing about them is that my worldly gain on these days is very small but the fact I gained self-respect from my actions far outweighs that, and what I gained on such days is great, praise be to Allah, the Exalted, All Merciful.”

Plant a tasbih (saying Subhan Allah) in a second, an idea in a minute, and a deed in an hour.

Source: Dr. ‘A’id al-Qarni

Choose Who You Befriend Carefully

Know that not everyone is suitable to be your friend. You must verify that this potential friend has the necessary characteristics that make friendship with him something to be desired. The one you seek to befriend must have five characteristics:

  • He must be intelligent, as there is no good in befriending an idiot, as he will only harm you when he wants to benefit you. By intelligent, we mean one who understands things as they are, either on his own, or if they are explained to him;
  • He must have good manners, and this is a must. One who is simply intelligent might be overcome by anger or desire, and obey his desire. Thus, there would be no benefit in befriending him;
  • He must not be a fasiq, as such a person would not fear Allah, and whoever does not fear Allah cannot be trusted;
  • He must not be an innovator, as his abundance of innovation is feared from befriending him;
  • He should not be eager for the dunya.
Source: [‘Mukhtasar Minhaj al-Qasidin’; p. 126-132] – Ibn Qudamah al Maqdisi]